Showing posts with label Gilmanton. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Gilmanton. Show all posts

Saturday, May 14, 2016

Surname Saturday ~ THOMPSON of Gilmanton, New Hampshire


THOMPSON/ THOMSON/ TOMPSON

My 4th great grandmother, Nancy Thompson (1804 – after 1847), is a complete mystery to me.  I don’t know when she was born, or who are her parents.  I don’t have a death record for her either.  She was widowed, and then disappeared from any records I have seen – so far.   This Thompson line is a real genealogical brick wall to me.

I also have two other New England THOMPSON lineages.  One is from David Thompson ( 1592 – 1628), the first European settler to live permanently in New Hampshire.  The other is from Alexander Thompson (about1636 – 1696), one of Cromwell’s Scots prisoners of war sent to New England to be sold into servitude.   It would be wonderful to find out that Nancy was from one of these lineages, or even to find out she was from a third colonial Thompson line.  But so far, she is a mystery.

This is what I know about Nancy.  She was born about 1804, probably in or near the town of Gilmanton in Belknap County, New Hampshire.  On 11 February 1822 in Belmont,  Belknap County, New Hampshire she married Jonathan Batchelder (the marriage record lists her place of birth as Gilmanton, a town contiguous to Belmont).  They had two children, the eldest, George E. Batchelder (1822 – 1848) is my 3rd great grandfather.  The other child is Pauline, who was left an orphan when her father died very young in 1847 in the New Hampshire State Insane Asylum.   I have found the guardianship papers for Pauline, and Nancy was named her guardian.  

After the guardianship case, Nancy disappeared from the records. I have not found a death for Nancy Thompson in New Hampshire. I have not found her in a census record after 1840.  I have found no proof that she remarried.  She was not living with her son or daughter in any census record after 1840.  There are several Thompson families living in and near Gilmanton and the region near Lake Winnipesaukee in New Hampshire, but records do not show a Nancy/Ann/Hannah Thompson born near her supposed age.  I am sure there are missing records because New Hampshire did not require vital records to be recorded until later, and there was not total compliance in recording vital records until 1905.  

This is a very sad story.  I know that George married before his father died.  He married Abigail M. Locke in 1845.  His sister Pauline was only 14 years old when her father died in 1847, but two years later she married David C. Watson.  She seemed to live a nice life after this, since her husband was a merchant tailor in Concord, New Hampshire and Boston, Massachusetts according to census records.

George was emancipated from his father in 1840, the year he turned 18 years old, according to newspaper notices.  Sadly, he also died very young at age 25 in 1848.  His son George, Jr., my great great grandfather,  was born posthumously that same year.  I have no record of what caused his early death.   

George, Jr. was raised by his maternal grandparents in Chichester – Capt. Richard Locke and his wife Margaret Welch.  Young George, Jr. went to Boston and worked as a mechanic, on the railroads and in real estate looking after the estate of R. Esterbrooks in South Boston.  

My THOMPSON lineage:

Generation 1:  Nancy Thompson, born about 1804 probably in Gilmanton, New Hampshire, died after 1847; married on 11 February 1822 in Belmont, New Hampshire to Jonathan Batchelder, son of Elisha Batchelder and Sarah Lane.  He was born about 1800 in Hampton and died before 4 November 1847 in the New Hampshire State Asylum in Concord, New Hampshire.  Two children.

Generation 2:  George E. Batchelder m. Abigail M. Locke
Generation 3:  George E. Batchelder m. Mary Katharine Emerson
Generation 4:  Carrie Maude Batchelder m. Joseph Elmer Allen
Generation 5:  Stanley Elmer Allen m. Gertrude Matilda Hitchings


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Heather Wilkinson Rojo, "Surname Saturday ~ THOMPSON of Gilmanton, New Hampshire", Nutfield Genealogy, posted May 14, 2016,  (  http://nutfieldgenealogy.blogspot.com/2016/05/surname-saturday-thompson-of-gilmanton.html: accessed [access date]). 

Thursday, November 13, 2014

Melinda Wilkinson, the Runaway Bride

Melinda George married Jonathan Wilkinson on New Year’s Day 1828 in Gilford, New Hampshire.  Jonathan was the son of Benning Wilkinson, a founder of the Center Harbor, New Hampshire and a Revolutionary War veteran. 

I haven’t found any children for this marriage, nor death records for either Melinda or Jonathan.  They seemed to have disappeared from the records. And so I began to search deeds, probate, military and newspaper records.  When I turned to searching newspapers, I found this very interesting 1832 notice with GenealogyBank.com:

from GenealogyBank, Nw Hampshire Patriot and State Gazette (Concord, New Hampshire),
Monday, 6 February 1832, Volume 2, Issue 136, page 4


Apparently, these notices are not unusual in old newspapers.  Along with lost horses, runaway seamen, runaway apprentices and disinherited sons, you can easily find notices of runaway wives. 

Legally, a wife was the property of her husband, and she owned nothing.  Most wives left without taking anything, not even their children.  There must have been something very wrong with the situation for a woman to leave her children behind.  If she took them, they legally belonged to the husband.   Because of these laws, some widows refused to remarry.  However, a widow with young children would probably remarry quickly for the protections and financial stability of a husband.

Marriage was a contract.  If a woman bought or sold anything, it belonged to her husband. These notices usually contained language, like this one, stating that the husband would no longer honor any of her debts or contracts.   This was a clause that prevented the runaway from obtaining employment or purchases, in an attempt to have her return home.  Anyone who assisted the fugitive wife risked a lawsuit for damages.

Marcia Schmidt Blaine of Plymouth State University has been touring New Hampshire lecturing on these newspaper notices with her lecture “Runaway Wives: When Colonial Marriages Failed”.  She is sponsored by the New Hampshire Humanities Council.  You can find one of her lectures on their website calendar at www.nhhc.org/calendar.php

I have no further information on Jonathan and Melinda Wilkinson.  But I do know that their story, whatever it is, must be very interesting!

 For the truly curious:

An interesting list of “Runaway Wife” notices from New York 1754 – 1774

A blog post dating from 2013 about runaway wife notices from the “Housesandbooks” blog

A book by Maureen Taylor, Runaways, Deserters and Notorious Villains from Rhode Island Newspapers, Camden, Maine: Picton Press, 1994.

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