In the fall of 1658 my 9 x great grandparents, Quakers
Lawrence and Cassandra Southwick, were banished from the Massachusetts Bay
Colony by the Puritan government. They sought refuge at the little
Quaker settlement of Shelter Island, off of Long Island. They both died there of deprivation and
exposure in May 1659. You can read the
story of their persecution and punishment in this blog post: http://nutfieldgenealogy.blogspot.com/2012/03/surname-saturday-southwick-of-salem.html
In my mind’s eye, I saw Shelter Island as a barren, deserted
island. The sad story of the Southwicks
loomed in my imagination, and I wished to explore it and see their final
resting spot. Even though Long Island is
close to New England, I had never been there.
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| The Quaker Monument in the middle of the Quaker Cemetery, at the Sylvester Manor on Shelter Island, off Long Island, New York |
Suddenly we had a chance to visit Long Island, and the first
place on my list of “things to see” was Shelter Island. We visited on the first day of our trip. It was a long drive from New Hampshire, and
three ferries later, and we were on a beautiful, green, quiet little resort
island. It was nothing like I had imagined.
We found the Quaker Cemetery after driving right past it a
few times. It is on a dirt road barely
visible from the main road, but there is a white sign hanging there that says
“Society of Friends”. The land is
private owned by the Sylvester Estate, and the Quakers hold an outdoor Sunday meeting
there in the summer months next to the small burying ground. You must drive down the road carefully to see
both.
The Quaker burial ground has less than a dozen gravestones,
and a large monument erected by the Sylvester family. The Sylvesters themselves were removed from
the burial ground to another cemetery years ago. Most of the Quaker graves are unmarked. The
large monument is dedicated to the Sylvester family on top, and the steps tell
the story of the Quaker settlement.
However it is entirely illegible due to weather and wear.
The Quaker Meeting area is simple, with board benches placed in a
circle in a wooded area next to the burial ground. I imagine this is how the first Quakers held
their meetings on Shelter Island. It was
beautiful on the day we visited, with the sunlight coming in through the leaves
and branches. On the way out of the site
I wrote down the phone number on the sign by the road. We called right away. A very nice woman answered the phone, and
told me that she had a sheet of paper with a transcription of the monument’s
inscription. We met her at her home in
Shelter Island Heights and had a nice conversation about the Quaker history of
the island. She told me that many Southwick descendants have come to the Quaker Meetings on Shelter Island in the summers! If we had been staying longer, it would have been nice to attend the meeting.
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| This simple Quaker Meeting place is next to the cemetery |
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| This sign and phone number led us to the cemetery |
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| You can see our red convertible in the trees, and this road is easy to miss if you are unfamiliar with the area. Look for the white Quaker Meeting sign or this blue marker to Nathaniel Sylvester |
The link to the 10 August 2012 Shelter Island Part 2:
http://nutfieldgenealogy.blogspot.com/2012/08/the-quaker-monument-on-shelter-island.html
For more information:
Shelter Island Quakers:
http://www.shelterislandchamber.org/community/quakers/quakers.html
Shelter Island Historical Society: http://shelterislandhistory.org/
Sylvester Estate: http://sylvestermanor.wordpress.com/
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Heather Wilkinson Rojo, "A Visit to Shelter Island", Nutfield Genealogy, posted August 9, 2012, ( https://nutfieldgenealogy.blogspot.com/2012/08/a-visit-to-shelter-island.html: accessed [access date]).
