John Friend was in New England around 1637 and became a church member in Salem, Massachusetts in 1640. He resided in the part of Salem that became Manchester, and he was a farmer, grist mill operator and a builder. On 16 March 1640 several landowners, including John Friend, petitioned the General Court to establish Manchester as a separate village from Salem. This was granted in 1645, as you can see above on the town seal.
In 1649 John also petitioned to build a grist mill on the
Bass River. He built a dam and a grist mill near what is now the Cummings
Center (the old United States Shoe Corporation), and near where my ancestor John
Balch was living at the time (the Balch house is still standing and is owned by the Beverly Historical Society). Around
1650 he sold the mill and land to Lawrence Leach, another one of my ancestors. This is only a few blocks from 7 Dearborn
Avenue in Beverly, Massachusetts, where I grew up, and where four generations
of my family lived and walked to work at “The Shoe”.
There were several other John Friends in New England at this
time period. In the Essex Genealogist,
Volume 16 (1996), page 139 a letter is quoted from John Winthrop to his son,
John, dated 10 June 1636 “… I pray deliver this letter inclosed to Jo: Friend…” This may have been a different John Friend. Also, there is a John Friend in Boston at
this time, a member of the Ancient and Honorable Artillery Company, who is
probably a third John Friend.
It is unknown when John Friend died, but his will was dated
4 November 1655 and it was probated on 27 January 1655/56 in Salem.
from The Essex Antiquarian, Volume VI (1902), page 157
"WILL OF JOHN FRIEND
The will of John Friend was proven in the court at Ipswich
27:1:1656. The following copy is from
the original on file in the office of the clerk of courts at Salem, Volume III,
leaf 47.
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The last will & Testament of John ffreind made ye 4: of
ye ii mo: 1655
I John ffriend being weake & sick of Bodie by of pfect
Memory doe ordaine this as my Last will & testament
Imp. I giue &
bequeath unto my Sonn Samuell ffriends a double portion out of my whole estate
personall & Reall:
Item I giue unto my
duaghter Elizabeth pecker: befides that tenn pownds I haue in my hands wch her
granfather gaue her, twente shillings
Item I giue & bequeath unto my other thre children
Bethiah Hester & James, Equall portions one as much as ye other: & for
ye better pformance of this my will I appoynt my Sonn Samuell to be my
Executor, & defire & appoynt my Louing ffiends william Dodg &
william King to be my ouerfeers in witnefs whereof I haue herunto fet my hand
ye day & yeer firft above written:
witnes George Emery
Edmond
grouer [no signature]
Henery
Hericke"
Some FRIEND resources:
The History and Genealogy of John Friend of Salem, Massachusetts and
his descendants, by Peter Pindar Stearns, Baltimore, MD: Gateway Press,
1997.
Also see the following articles, “John Friend of Salem and
His Descendants”, Part 1 and Part 2, by
Peter Pindar Stearns, The Essex
Genealogist, Volume 16 (1996), page
138 – 145, and Volume 16 (1996), pages 212 – 220.
My FRIEND genealogy:
Generation 1: John
Friend, born about 1605 in England, died between 4 November 1655 and 27 January
1656 in Manchester, Essex County, Massachusetts; married Unknown. Five children
Generation 2: Bethiah Friend, born about 1637 and died
before 1680; married about 1657 to John Poland, son of Thomas Poland and Hannah
Unknown. He was born about 1631 in England
and died 3 August 1713 in Hamilton, Essex County, Massachusetts. Seven
children. John Poland married second to
Margery Unknown, widow of Anthony Dike, about 1680.
Generation 3: James
Poland married Rebecca Kimball
Generation 4: John Poland married Abigail Davis
Generation 5: Daniel
Poland married Sarah Bishop
Generation 6: Martha
Poland married Alexander Mears
Generation 7: Samuel
Mears married Lydia W. Burnham
Generation 8: Samuel Mears married Sarah Ann Burnham
Generation 9: Sarah Burnham Mears married Joseph Gilman
Allen
Generation 10: Joseph Elmer Allen married Carrie Maude Batchelder
Generation 11: Stanley Elmer Allen married Gertrude Matilda
Hitchings (my grandparents)
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Heather Wilkinson Rojo, "Family Reunions, 2015", Nutfield Genealogy, posted June 27, 2015 ( http://nutfieldgenealogy.blogspot.com/2015/06/surname-saturday-friend-of-salem-and.html : accessed [access date]).
So I did some research about John Friend. There was only one John Friend in New England at that time. I found multiple sources that say he was a founder of the Saybrook Colony in Connecticut as well as Hartford. There is a monument in Hartford with his name on it. Court documents say he came from Salem, MA then lived in Connecticut for a short period of time. Then had to request permission to move back to Salem. From there the family moved slowly up Cape Ann to Gloucester. They lived in Wenham, Essex, Manchster as well. My Grandpa and his brothers inherited property and a house that was in our family since the early 1700s in Gloucester. They sold it in the late 1980s. Most of the family is buried in 3 cemeteries Gloucester as well as a few other cemeteries in Essex County. I have a file with all my ancestors and there is a straight line going back to John Friend.
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Hello Matt,
ReplyDeleteWe may be distant cousins-my 5th great grandfather, Friend White, was b.1748 in E. Windsor, Hartford Co, Ct. His father was Robert White b.1717. Capt. Friend White (Sr) had at least 3 children-Friend Jr., George, and Rachel. We descend directly from friend White Jr. There are several "White" marriages in the Friend family. Any chance you might be able to help connect the dots? My Aunt has been trying for decades...
I'm not sure on this one. Although, in my tree there's a Joesph Rowlandson (B. 1631 in Sailsbury, MA - D. 1678 in Weather's field, Hartford, CT.) Who was married to Mary White(I don't have many info. On her birth and death dates). But I don't see any connections between the 'Friend' and 'White' families. There is a good possibility that there is one. I haven't figured it out though. There were lots of marriages between the same few original families in Essex County, Massachusetts. So my tree has many cousin marriages all down the lines. They also used the last names like 'Kimball' and 'Ober' as middle names. In the 'Friend' line. Also, I've discovered alot of photos going back 160+ years. The genes still appear very strong! I look almost identical to a lot of my ancestors on the Friend and Merchant lines going back 5+ generations.
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Michael Friend here, my Father George Friend traced back our lineage to John Friend. We spent many vacations going through libraries in Maine and we visited the Friend farm in Mass.
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